Words....

These past few months have been interesting. My heart seems to have its days where no matter what I do I can't shake one thought that sits in the corner of my mind. 

And that is... What do I really mean to you?

I mean why are you so afraid or ashamed to care about me?

In any capacity. 

I have made this point before... But relationships do not become stronger by cutting them off... They weaken. 

I am not close with people or God because I didn't try to do something about them. 

I am close to you because I let you into my life and vice versa. 

You said I am one of the people that you care about the most and yet you fill your life with other people... And lock me out with something to gain by doing so?

The funny thing is this... This is what you always do. You lock up when things begin to feel real and that you would have to admit that you feel more. You hid yourself away from me returning to the only thing you know... Which is keeping me at arms length because you see how close I have gotten. Like it snuck up on you. 

You always try to hide and try to patch up all these old wounds yourself. 

I never set out to fix you. 

I set out to love you. 

Maybe that idea is forgein to you, but it doesn't make it any less real.

I think you missed what I was truly asking you to be... I was asking you to be... You. 

The girl who always opened up to me. Who let me be there for her. The girl who made me laugh. The girl who I have seen sad. The girl who cares about me.

I just wish we could talk. 

I miss you.

The Truth.

When I drive home I tend to think about you and why things are like this.

I read some of the things that had been written recently.

The things that matter in this life are sharing it those whom you care about and loving Him.

You miss the point all the time.

You care about me because I cared about you.... Not just because of what I said, but because of my actions.

That's why you heart struggles with it, but you constantly try to stomp it out because you don't like being vulnerable and you are afraid of someone truly accepting you. You know deep down that's why you aren't talking to me. It isn't lust. It is love you feel for me and that is scary to you. Always has been scary for you.

What do we have to gain by slamming the door on something that's matters to us?

I don't think you have ever placed me above Him and I don't feel like I was on a pedestal.

The truth is that I love you. You matter because of who He showed me who you are.

I wish you would realize that you can't stop something that He has put on your heart.

Serving.

There a lot of things in my life that I have been realizing lately. 

I was going through my room and cleaning the other day when I came upon some old music charts from when I did waiting room with Tyler. I text him about it and we started to talk about how much we enjoyed doing that. I truly do miss it... Quite a bit actually.

I quit playing in church probably about a year ago and even then it was for a church that wasn't really a church I wanted to go to, but I did it more as a favor to a friend. Most people would be like well you like playing guitar and that's why you miss it. While that is partially true... in reality I don't break out my guitar very often. 

The thing is that I know that it is a gift that He has given me and it is one way I can serve Him. I feel called to start serving again. 

So I am asking for those doors to open and to volunteer doing that again. 

Some of the messages at New City Church (where I have been going to church) recently have hit home with where I am and I think it is time to act. I want to experience what He has to offer to me. 

I pray that things are going well for you and that He is showing more of who He is and what He is calling you to. 

Maybe...we can talk more about this all someday.

"Time is a tyrant. It consumes choices left unmade."

Open my eyes...

I feel like I have been awakened... 

That this life is GOOD because HE IS GOOD... 

There are times where you think you know so much... 

But you really don't. 

You will never have all the answers...

And the truth is you don't need them all.

If you knew the answer to everything... Then where is the mystery? Where is the adventure of learning? 

God doesn't call me to know everything, but He does call me to trust Him... and to follow Him when He leads. 

This life moves faster than sometimes we want to admit. While some days drag on... Before we know it another year has gone by... And before we know it has been several years... 

There is so much I want from this life... Things I want see... Places I want to go... Things I want to experience... to grow in my relationship with Christ... and someone to share all this with... 

I am a simple man. I know I could go do these things on my own... But I don't just want stories. I want memories to share and remember with that someone who means the most to me... and to always be making more memories. 

Father, you are the only one who truly knows my heart and you know the concerns of my heart, my desires, my faults, my failures... and yet you love me wholly for who I am. I ask that your love would wash over my heart. I am broken and hurt... But you are there. I ask that you would give me what I need and that you would open my eyes. May the scales fall from my eyes to see what you really have in store for me. I am so thankful for your love for me. 

Amen... 

"This is not the sound of a new man or crispy realization

It's the sound of the unlocking and the lift away

Your love will be

Safe with me..."

Thankful.

Well I wanted to sit down and actually READ my Bible and not just browse through it or listen to it on my iPod. So I started by asking God what is it that I needed to read. So He can open my eyes and heart to it. I felt like He really wanted me to read 1 Thessalonians chapter 1, so I did.

The first thing that really stuck out to me was verse 2, which states, "we give thanks to God always for all of you making mention of you in our prayers." This is something that has been on mind for the past few weeks. I have been "pretty good" about praying for those I love dearly, but do we thank God for everyone that is in our life, even those who cause strife and make life difficult?

What was crazy about this is tonight while I was drving home I prayed for a pretty usual set of people, but then it me... there are people who I constantly get upset with who make me angry by something they do to me or to someone I love.

So tonight I prayed for and was thankful for people who have caused problems and strife in my life. It makes me appreciate those who have constantly loved me and supported me that much more because I know there were times when I was difficult.

I am so thankful for those people who are in my life.

Day by day, Jesus chips away pieces of me, forming me into who He wants me to be.

Ephesians 3:20-21 "Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.

Oh Life...

It's hard to believe that another year of school has passed by the wayside already. It feels like it started as soon as it ended, and yet so many things have changed this year. I conquered two semesters of 19 credit hours. I played in a PR band this whole year, which was hectic at times. Waiting Room was Amazing this year! I love those people to death and I'm so glad that I have great friendships with them! I find myself at a new church and quite frankly I love it there! I love the people there and I see a passion in the leadership that I think is so important. Which is all very exciting.

Using the Lord's name in vain...

How many of us really think about this topic? Do we only apply this to people saying GD? Is this the worst offense for using the Lord's name in vain?

I ask these questions because I feel like in the six months or so I have seen people and experienced people who claim for something to be of the Lord's will for their life and they act like it is complete and total truth and they speak with such conviction about it. Then later down the road something happens, a new opportunity presents itself (A relationship, a better job offer, or just something better in general). All of the sudden that becomes God's new will for their life. My question is then which of these things is really what God wanted you to do? I'm not saying that God cannot use your decisions for good, but what I'm saying is why do people peg these things as God's will?

Just a thought.